I know I haven't updated in a couple of months or so, sorry. There's been a lot going on, and honestly, it's none of your business, but I will tell you this, I've learned a lot about myself, and about others.
When I say I've learned a lot, I mean good and bad, and some of the bad has brought out a lot of changes, some that have been immediate, some that will take longer, but they are things I'm intensely working on. It's not all bad, I'm learned a lot of good things about myself, and that's been the source of a lot of motivation and I realize can be a source of happiness. When you really look at yourself, you can fix the things you don't like, some of them are hard to confront, some are easier, but each thing you overcome is a step in the right direction.
I've learned being happy is primarily about being content with who you are, or what you are working to be. I've learned that taking things for granted is stupid. I've learned that each moment is a decision, and you can't go back, only forward - so you have to act with wisdom, not emotion, because emotions aren't always wise. I've learned there are people who will play both sides of the game just to cause drama, and that hurting people hurt others.
Be kind to everyone, it's just the right thing to do.